First thing I did after reading your thread was to click on your profile and it says you have only been a member since this month, and we are only 2 weeks in so far so you have to give it time. People dont like to jump into bed with someone without getting to know them first and the best place to do that is in the chatroom. It also depends on what you are writing in your mail to people and what they look for as some have a habit of mailing people without reading their profile first. Im not saying that you do this but if say a cpl receive a mail from a single guy and their profile says looking only for cpls then they probably wont reply as that person hasnt bothered reading their profile. It takes time to meet ppl it doesnt happen overnight or through one mail, and you have to remember that there is an awful lot of other single males out there doing exactly the same as you. For example, a cpl looking for a sigle male will get lots of mail from single guys, what do you think makes you in their eyes stand out from all the others apart from not having a cock shot on your main profile pics (which is cool). Without knowing what you put in your mails to people its hard to give much advice, but basically your profile and the mails that you send need to make you stand out from the majority, which is what I guess is key to getting someones attention.
Personally I think it's just your total abuse of the apostrophe!
Love from the grammar police xx
[quote user=girliebob]Personally I think it's just your total abuse of the apostrophe!
Love from the grammar police xx[/quote]
Well Girly If you are the grammer police when you going to take me off to jail then cause what with my bad spelling and even worse grammer I should be sent down for a long time lol
I have tried not to be too smutty, I even put "cock" pic's into private , as it seem's every guy just put's his cock on show and hope's for the best !!
Has anyone got any ideas or experiences with where I might be going wrong ??? [B]bold text here[/B][/quote]
Rogers you are not the first and certainly not the last to say "no one responds" It seems the trait today unlike when I was dragged up manners were almost the most important thing in life. But I do have to agree with Dee else she will smack my :moon: next time we meet. You really do have to get to know peeps in the room and if they don't get in the room because they are free members well I for one don't think they are serious anyone else they would have stumped up the 50 quid to join for a year. So do as I do and not got many virtual friends on here just get involved in the chat, chill out and have some fun, the rest will follow naturally
Post edited 18-05-2006 6:35
pmsl to all of you - my profile is NEVER read, becuase all the mails say "PLEASE CAN WE MEET"" - and I SO DONT!!! xxx, it does make me giggle tho, and then they get upset when you dont reply - missy, i can think of a fab word to call the lot of them!
UR4 - ive decided your really really posh with your meeting in "bars", im still in pub mode myself - must be me age hunnie!!!! - and in my day i used to go up to peeps and say "fancy a blow job"?? - is there anything wrong with that!!!!!! xxxxx
have a fab day, and an even better evening
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Hehe.....that was Dee's reply...and it was actually only one paragraph lol
But i will have my say soon...lol
Post edited 18-05-2006 21:56
Nuttybird fancy a meet and a fuck! :P
OMG OMG OMG !!!!!!!! only blow jobs, and long distance ones 2 boot!!, but NOT IN CAPTIAL LETTERS I hasten to add, neway Matt, you havent been in chat for AGES - missing you hunnie UR4IT - love you!!!!!
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i forgot now!!
Post edited 19-05-2006 16:04
what are u lot on and please can i have some.
You know what im on PUSS hunnie!! i bottle it , and have a drink when I feel like shite - i cant speak for the others tho babe !!
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puss in boots, I have an abundant supply!
Come on down and never mind the glass, you can drink straight from the tap! ;-)