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Age and sexual attraction
Which age group is the most sexually attractive?
Casanova
:sparring: :sparring: [color="red"][size="18"]Oii[/size][/color]
What is wrong with older women ? :cry:
I believe that everyone has a specific age where they look their best and are most sexually confident, and it's not always when they are really young.
I was always too shy and self conscious when I was younger to be sexy, and a lot of men are too arrogant in their late teens and early twenties. I'm generalising though obviously.
Ellie.
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Am totally with you there Ellie, I have never felt as sexy as I do since I hit 30! Altho I was probably slimmer and fitter when younger, the confidence and experience of age has contributed to this. Bring on the naughty 40's I say grrrrr. As for attraction to men at a certain age, hmmmm it definately varies. For me a biggie is sense of humour and a little more deepness and conversation to them instead of 'Can I jump your bones' lol
mwaaaaaaaaaah xx
Heres one for all you 40's and over. I have never felt as sexy as i do now...was 50 last year!!....and i guess it all started in my mid forties ( kids grown up and a bit more freedom from everyday chores) I was obviously in better shape and looked better younger, but i dont think i oosed sex appeal then. I have more experience sexually now and I 'feel' sexual. I have more fun now and I hope I am easy to be with. Three ingredients , i feel, for attracting the right man, whatever age. And I have definately found my man !!!:cheers:
I am refusing to vote as age means nothing to me. There are some men who grow sexier with age - George Clooney comes to mind. There are also some men who were much sexier in there younger days, Marlon Brando being one. He was a gorgeous sexy man in his early and mid twenties and into his early thirties. Something went terribly downhill after that.
Anyway, like I said age means nothing to me. It's all about attitude, confidence and outlook on life . Experience does come into it of course, but I have some terribly inexperienced men in their thirties and forties, and some very experienced men in their twenties...
On the other side, I feel much sexier now at 31 than I did at 21. Yay to dirty thirties! Maybe it is because I am older and wiser now. In my early 20s I didn't really know myself terribly well, and now I know what I do want and don't want and that has given me more confidence even if the body isn't as firm and supple as it was 10 years ago when it was cellulite free!!!
OK, speaking of cellulite and wobbly bits... my question for you guys is do you really care as much about that stuff as most women think you do??
[quote user=oliviak]OK, speaking of cellulite and wobbly bits... my question for you guys is do you really care as much about that stuff as most women think you do??[/quote]
From my point of view NO. If it doesn't move naturally it probably isn't. I love to see a womens' breasts 'wobble' when they walk. As long as the cellulite or extra pounds are not excessive its OK by me. Much prefer the curvy female and honestly the "stick insect" does absolutely nothing for me.
Sexpert
As i always say ..... its our inperfections that make us perfect !!
Age to me has no bearing on just how sexy people are and as for body sizes and shapes ..... they are no real issue either. I prefer to see that glint in someone's eyes, their personality and character and just how we interact. That to me is just SO much more appealing and sexy.
In my past profession i have seen all body shapes and sizes and i usually find that the ones with the so called ' perfect ' bodies love themselves far too much - naturally i am not pasting everyone with this brush as there are always exceptions - and what use is the perfect body if they are as boring as bat shit ??!! ...... but when they both are present ...... look out !! lol xxx
Also as for age - it too has no real importance for me as it really is just a number in most cases .... i have met peeps in the early 20's who are more switched on and aware of themselves that peeps in their 40's so it all means very little to me once again.
I tend to be very organic in the people i want to meet and i usually find the whole is more than the sum of the parts and i just get a feel ( and sometimes more !! lol xx ) for the person. Also personally i feel fab to be in my 30's - its just a fab place to be. Wise enought to know better and have a tad more confidence and self assurance ..... and still young enough to look halfway decent ..... and meet peeps either side of your age too - its win win !! lmao xxxxxx
Oh yeah ...... and BTW - Bollocks to the Cosmo, FHM and all that other tripe press that marginalise and pigeonhole people ....... i prefer to encourage individuality - its just SO much more refreshing that being part of the ' wannabe ' crowd !! lol xxx
Orgasminator
I think our taste just refines as we get older... I remember when I was a teenager I used to see about 10 people a day that I fancied, in my 20's it was maybe 3 a week, now I be lucky to see someone worth a second glance once a month... either that or the planet is getting uglier LOL
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Age to me has no bearing on just how sexy people are and as for body sizes and shapes ..... they are no real issue either. I prefer to see that glint in someone's eyes, their personality and character and just how we interact. That to me is just SO much more appealing and sexy.[/quote]
Here here!!! I couldn't have said it better myself.
Sexpert
I just thought you liked big cocks and vodka tho Oli ??!! lol xxxxx
Sexpert
Oh and BTW BK ......... oh how jaded you are ....... and for one so young too is tragic !! lol xxxx
Loves ya's still tho ya nutters - mwah xxxxxx
Personally, I find confidence and independence to be the sexiest attributes a person can have and that usually comes with age and experience. You can sometimes find it in a younger person but it's often just bluster and underneath is some deep insecurity. Which is not to say that you won't find a 40-year old with all the angst or a 17 year old (and I seem to attract them like a feckin' magnet) but it's rarer.
Of course, long legs help too. :cheers:
Sexpert
Ok Ok you rotten cow ..........
........ i'll even bring cranberry juice and lube ......
...... but you have to supply the ice cubes and the feather duster sweetie !! mwahahahahaha lol xx
Orgasminator
Im not jaded...just a realist... I mean really, you only have to go shopping and look around... its rarely a pretty site lol
