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Sid_n_Nancy
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 43
Straight Male, 47
0 miles · Hampshire

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[color="green"]This reminds me of one of the best cons I have ever heard of. People would send cheques to a company to buy something by mail order, usually sexy lingerie, toys etc. A few weeks later (after their cheques had been cashed) they would recieve a letter back claiming that there had been problems with the order, so they have returned a cheque of the full amount. Problem was the company name on the cheque would be something along the lines of "Huge black throbbing dildo offer" low and behold the disgruntled customers never took their refunds to cash at the bank and the scallywags got away with their money!! lol[/color] :fuckinghell::small-print:bolt
[color="olive"]It might just be us but we think all this recent kerfuffle has given the chat room a badly needed new lease of life, it's been great in there the last couple of nights. Definitely feels a bit more like it used to be.[/color] :happy::bounce::happy:
[color="olive"][quote user=crystalpd] So how does one become a moderator then? Can anyone suggest how you get the star?! [/quote] 1. make sure that you are 100% committed to not having anymore fun in this site. 2. Be completely ready to be bombarded with everyones problems everytime you enter the chatroom. 3. Be aware that you have to address all those problems along with the other mods everyday in your own time. 4. Have a completely open mind to what picture content is uploaded to the site. (remember the pics in the gallery have all been authorised, you should see what doesn't get through) 5. Don't expect any pay. 6. Don't expect any grattitude (there's only a handfull of people that actually respect what the mods do) 7. Be prepared to have hate campaigns formed against you. (they run for years sometimes) 8. The worst bit is the fact that you [b]have[/b] to remain impartial even if it's good friends involved. 9. Join the queue. On the plus side though you do get an almighty, shiney kick button which kind of over shadows everything else! lol Only joking Crystal, if you're serious the best thing to do is mail admin and tell them, with the way things are at the moment I wouldn't be suprised if they start recruiting again. And a couple like you two would get plenty of support.[/color]
[quote user=jonpears]...recognition of continuing support of the site over the years ..... pretty much from day one ...... thank you SP Admin ..... it is very refreshing for SP Admin to recognise and say thank you for supporting the site. How many of the other members can make a similar claim?[/quote] [color="olive"]I reckon we bloody can?? [/color]
[color="olive"]It Would be nice if it could be like other network sites, where you have to accept anyone that adds you to their faves![/color]
[color="olive"]And may a give a warm welcome back to the ridiculous cock forest of a gallery I thought this site had grown out of![/color] :thrilled::sleeping:
[color="olive"]We've been here since well before 2005, and we were mods but we never got the offer! dunno:fuckinghell::-? That'll learn us for throwing a paddy and changing our name! lol We have had a lot of our time in here for free but that was because we did the whole mod thing so can't really complain! Admin you need to understand that the the whole paysite system offers some sort of security against chancers and idiots ruining the site for everybody else. All you've done is open the flood gates! I can understand that this is a great idea for all the [size="18"][b]Paying[/b][/size] members that joined before 2005 but now the chatroom will be more like a trip to the zoo! God I miss my star! lol banghead:doh::small-print: It has been nice to see a few old faces back in the site though :cheers::happy:[/color]
[color="olive"]It's not a definite yet but we will try really hard to come! Could we have the details please? x[/color]
[color="olive"]Hmm.. 1. I am very shy and self concious. 2. I love to draw, mainly portraits. 3. I am scared of Fish! 4. Soggy bread makes me want to throw up sad 5. I love to read, I read lots and lots! 6. Bacardi and coke is my favourite drink 7. I am a Capricorn, but I think all that star sign stuff is a load of shite! 8. I am very cynical and won't believe in things that I have not seen! 9. I am addicted to Poker lol 10. Feet disgust me! 11. I would love to visit Japan and China, the cultures fascinate me! 12. I am a bit of a geek! But I like being a geek! 13. Text speak irritates me. 14. I love sprouts!! 15. I am a bit of a coward! 16. I am still waiting in hope for a threesome with a single bi female? smile 17. Strangely I have a bit of a crush on Derren Brown. 18. And Jaime Winstone 19. I still haven't decided haven't decided what I want to do when I grow up! 20. So for the time being my job is making relays for planes... Very boring! 21. I'm only 5'1 and wish I had longer legs! 22. I swear FAR too much! 23. Wasps scare the living crap out of me! They're evil! 24. Making love has never really worked for me... I much prefer fucking! 25. This was really hard work and I wish I hadn't started it! lol Nancy x[/color]
[color="olive"]Tiffany and Mark, Don't leave, This always happens, the site seems to peak and trough all the time. There are only a handful of members left in here from when we joined and personally we think the ones that have left are missing out. Jo and Ceylon are bang on, most people that leave come back, (we've tried to leave a couple of times but can't stay away! lol) in our opinion there aren't any better sites than this one, and DEFINITELY none as friendly. Apart from a few you've all been "newbies" to us at some point but we love seeing new faces in the site (fresh meat!! lol) Without exeption the idiots always get filtered out and the core of genuine and friendly members seems to get bigger and better all the time. We think you would be making a HUGE mistake if you leave, you guys are really popular in here and exactly the kind of people the site needs, It WILL get better, it always does. Also it's January, which is always arse! lol[/color]
[color="olive"][quote user=katndel]Sounds like its a sham lol seems like everybody on there first month as been motm now i dont feel special im gonna go sit in my little corner and cry lol[/quote] Think it does go on votes, when you first join all your pics are at the front of the gallery, your names are listed in the newest couples and everybody wants to be the first to corrupt you! poke :rascal: lol You stand out more and therefore get more votes. Funky's managed it twice (quite deservedly) because she makes herself known and is friendly to everyone without exeption! If you watch the pic gallery you'll notice a lot of members remove pics and then re-post in order to get them to the front again and invite more attention![/color]
[quote user=seduction72]We always thought there were darker forces....lol. xxx[/quote] [color="olive"]Think you might be on to something there!![/color] [quote user=funkydiva35]I think willy wonka, the oooompa lumpas, lion, witch, peeps from narnia, noah and his pets, zoe the hedless ball, eppi, bob, viki the vikin, yoda, monkey magic, Zebedeeee and all me otha twatted mates voted for ikkle me! [/quote] [color="olive"]I rest my case!:small-print: Didn't even know all those guys were members!! :welcome:[/color]
[color="olive"]Wasn't there a pop act called scat man jim or something! Did top of the pops know what it ment? :bounce::fuckinghell::bounce:[/color]
[quote user=the_lady]I think there has been a massive oversight here... Jessicca Rabbit Cheetarah from Thundercats Betty Rubble And those are just 3 I can be arsed to think of while I'm sitting here. Lois Griffin and Marge Simpson just don't cut it. It should be a multi-way poll! (Yes I like 80's cartoons. I am very sad)[/quote] [color="olive"]I completely agree! 80's cartoons were (and still are) the best! Nancy x[/color]
[color="olive"][quote user=99blackwhite]Hates: No serious swingers in UK [/quote] Dam they're on to us!! Looks like we've all got to stop being "silly, pretend swingers" now!! Sorry folks! :small-print:[/color]
[color="olive"][quote user=northlondon12]i`m gonna stay on the darkside wiv ya. :haha::haha:[/quote] Excellent news North xx (I am your father!!) :eeek::scared:[/color]
[quote user=blondecouple] Michael Flatley! Now what did he do? ok so hes VERY arrogant, but having seen him in Lord of the dance, before they used any old dancer I have to say, his arrogance isnt misplaced, he is an awesome dancer, and that bum and those thighs!!boink[/quote] [color="olive"]But he has freak crazy legs! it just isn't right and it scares the crap out of me![/color]
[color="olive"]Hates: 1. Selfishness. 2. Toffs/Twats who see themselves as better than everyone else. 3. Laziness. 4. Big Brother (actually all reality tv) 5. Chavs. 6. [size="18"]THAT STUPID POXY FULL HOUSE GAME!![/size] 7. Phone sales people. 8. The French lol 9. People who think they're patriotic but wouldn't lift a finger to actually do something for their country. 10. People who make/join facebook groups like "help the heroes" or "stop child cruelty" to make themselves feel better but don't do anything to actually help anyone! 11. Benefit cheats. 12. The Benefit system. 13. Most of Nancys family! lol 14. Letting people down. 15. Arse lickers. 16. Working away. 17. Jeremy Kyle and his contestants. 18. Loose Women 19. Actually all bloody day time tv! 20. Micheal Flatley Sid x[/color]
[color="olive"][quote user=twoontwo]does that mean you chat to us nancy lol[/quote] [size="24"]????[/size] [quote user=babydevil].. think its now time for me to make a hastier departure from SP heehee[/quote] You're not going anywhere!!!!! :fury: Not if we have anything to do with it! :small-print::lol2:[/color]
[quote user=oliviak]... has the novelty just worn off?[/quote] [color="olive"]The thing is, members who have only been around for a few months are saying the same thing. The atmosphere in the site is always changing for better and worse but this time it seems different somehow. If the novalty has worn off for us it's taken over 4 years for that to happen, it shouldn't be happening to people who have only just got here! It really doesn't make any sense because there are more brilliant members in the site now than there have ever been. It sucks that so many are losing interest, some to the extent they don't use the chatroom/forums anymore and some that just don't use the site anymore! Maybe the recession has hit the chatroom! lol Personally we're going to make a concerted effort to spend more time in the chatroom, enjoying it like we used to and making sure we have a laugh! I appologise to the mods in advance! bolt[/color]
[color="olive"]Exactly! We used to look forward to going into chat at weekends, have to admit we were completely hooked for ages! Think the chatroom is far too impersonal now. Every now and then we're in the mood to go in there and nine times out of ten we get bored or annoyed and leave. Maybe the novelty has just worn off? There has to be something wrong when I'd rather spend my time on facebook![/color]
[color="olive"]It is a completely different place now. Not sure why, think it may just be a volume thing.[/color]
[color="olive"]There's a swingers club in the new forest that we go to from time to time, a good percentage of the other club members are members in this site too. Hardly any of them use the chatroom or forums yet they are most definately genuine! We also have a few friends from this site that won't use the chatroom on principle, as much as we hate to admit it cliquey and daunting would be an understatement! I think you would be suprised at how big the scene is outside the socialising tools within this site.[/color]
[color="olive"]We were member of the month once upon a time too, we still haven't been given our prize!!! :fuckinghell::huh: And no we don't vote, popularity contests and swinging shouldn't mix![/color] poke